"Man's love is of man's life a thing apart 'tis woman's whole existence"
I have read somewhere that through love people touch God and Eternity. Nothing else matters when you are in love - you don't think about tomorrow, death or everyday life.
Love comes unexpected as a tornado and shakes us as an earthquake. It becomes the background of all other things we experience.
When you are in love you smile and see sunshine even in a stormy weather.
A word, a gesture, a glimpse or smile you’re your beloved person can change the sense of your days and emotions. There is a difference in the way man and woman experience love and there is a difference for each of us, too.
What do I think about that male and female loving? As it is said in the title of that essay-men usually think of love as a part of their conscious being. I mean they need love as a support for other things they need to do. I have seen men who insist they are strong enough to go on with or without love-that can be true but I believe that they will look like a shell without the mussel inside - nice but empty.
Anyway, men show they do not suffer as much as women do. 180 Just the opposite - you can always say which woman is loved and happy and which one is not. 193 Women who love and are loved look happy and lively because Love is the best part of their existence. Love makes them strong and beautiful. A woman without love is sad and helpless. 220 More than that, women need to know and to hear everyday that they are a subject of men's love and admiration. It is as important as sun and food for them. But to be honest, I do not think that men have different needs in that connection. The question is they think it will be weakness to show that out. Men believe they should stay emotionally stable for the others. Or at least not to show how much they care. That is my opinion and of course it can be true to some extend. But that life without Love is impossible is not anybody's opinion but the truth.
